Spanish
Family Life: The stereotypical
family here lingers long over its midday meal and then has a siesta.
But mobile phones are wreaking havoc with this, it's said. Spaniards
now eat in a 'hyperconnected' environment, eating more quickly and in
a more solitary environment,
says a recent study. And: 50%
of them eat their midday(main) meal in front of the TV, while 90% eat
their evening meal watching it.
Worse, midday meals are getting shorter and shorter, thanks mainly to
'work commitments'. If you think this is bad for Spanish family life,
just wait until the daily schedule finally conforms to European
norms. What then will happen to the ubiquitous Menú
del Día,
when everyone resorts to a quick sandwich? We should all be buying
shares in Pret-à-Porter
España.
And, possibly, Greggs'
Pies.
Gender
Ratios: So, which country has
the highest ration of 16 year old males to same age females? China?
Good guess but it's not right. It's Sweden. Because incoming refugees
are mostly males in the 16-18 group. Or this is what they claim, at
least. Because they get more benefits or the right to bring their
families in. Fascinatingly, the direction in which they lie depends
on whether they're Syrian or Afghan, for these groups are treated
differently. One group claims to be 16 when older even 27 in one case
- but the other claims to be 16 when younger. I guess it makes sense
to the refugees, if not to the Swedes. All terribly predictable, of
course. People in serious difficulties tend not to have much of a
belief in truth.
Google
+ and the Pope: Last night I did something I haven't done for
years. I took a look at my G+ page to see who'd posted to
it. I was rather surprised that the Pope featured hugely there. Maybe
50 posts, all of them from different – and obviously fervently
Catholic – individuals. What had I done to deserve this spamming?
Merely giving up the faith several decades ago? Making unsympathetic
comments in my blogs? Falling out with my very Catholic sister?Whatever, I've blocked all the posters, one by
one. And now stand ready to do this if any more should appear. What a
funny world.
Which
reminds me . . .
Faith
and Science:
If you want to see how religions – especially Christianity -
constantly highjack science to 'prove' the validity of their faith,
click here. Of course, what can't be proved is that the Big Bang and
the 'constant laws of physics' led to the arrival of God the Son
(Jesus, if you're not a Christian) on earth. Well, not for me anyway.
But you, of course, are free to believe whatever you want to believe.
On the basis of your own logic. So long as you don't burn anyone at a
stake. After all, one of the best aspects of studying law and living
in other cultures is that you quickly learn there's no such thing as
a single form of logic. Or even 'truth'. As refugees in Sweden
demonstrate.
Advertising English:
- And we'll also give you 1000 pounds off your deposit. Or 'a discount'.
More
anon.
THE
BREXIT SUPPLEMENT
This
is a heartfelt view of an Anglophile Spaniard. It's nice but I don't
share his concerns/pessimism. That said, I've ordered his book:-
Why
this Spaniard wants Britain to stay in the EU
Spanish
author Alberto Letona tells The Local why Britons would be denying
their entire history if they voted for Brexit.
In
July 1973 as a young student, I left my country, Spain, and came to
the UK. I was hoping to learn English and to get a menial job to help
me get by financially. The UK had been member of the European Union
for a mere six months.
It
was a sharp contrast with my country, still constrained under an ugly
dictatorship. I arrived at Gatwick airport, where everything seemed
spotless and efficient. I stayed in a miniscule apartment in London
for two months, while working as a kitchen porter in a pub near
Oxford Street. During that time I breathed freedom in all senses. I
was enchanted, not only with London´s diversity, but also with the
spirit of the country. I had already decided that one day I would be
back again.
Years
later I came back as a Basque language lecturer at St Andrews
University, where I taught for two years. These were changing times.
Margaret Thatcher was now in office and lots of things, from
education to politics, had shifted drastically. In my view the UK had
lost a bit of the humanism that I had loved so much in favour of a
cold-hearted pragmatism. At St Andrews I made good friends, and most
importantly I met my future wife, Kate. So I knew that I would come
back yet again.
And
yes, though we decided to settle down near Bilbao in the Basque
Country, we have been coming back regularly to the UK under any
excuse for almost 30 years. Beautiful Devon and busy London, where I
completed a masters degree in International Journalism, have been our
main bases. I have travelled quite widely around the world, but I can
honestly say that the UK is my second home in emotional terms, as it
is for our daughter and son.
Over
all these years I have witnessed a lot of changes in the UK, not all
of them for the better. I have followed the political and social life
of the country quite closely, and worked frequently for its media. I
have even dared to
write a book about
the UK and its citizens, including my judgments and affection too.
The
British, unlike the Spaniards, are very good at bashing their own
country, but like everybody else they don’t like it when criticism
comes from foreigners. They might be a bit cynical, but they don’t
get carried away by the words of lunatic politicians promising
eternal happiness to everyone. Individualist as they are, they have
kept a sense of community that some more gregarious societies would
very much envy. They don’t jump the queue as many of my fellow
countrymen do. Respect is a meaningful word.
I
fully understand that you have to be ready to integrate into the
country you live in. You should learn their language, because
otherwise you will miss all kinds of opportunities, not only
materialistic ones. These things are only logical and a sign of
respect for the country you are in.
Equally
some British people should understand that "Rule Britannia"
doesn’t apply any longer, and that the "dark satanic mills"
in Jerusalem form part of a global reality.
Immigration
is a big issue nowadays. Fear of other cultures is quite natural, but
I can’t help but smile when some people in Britain talk about
"invasions" without realizing the amount of British
nationals living in other places, not least in Spain. One of the
greatest successes of the British is that they have always turned
immigrants into their own. Italian and Irish immigrants, French
Huguenots, Jews, Russian refugees and Commonwealth citizens are all
an example. I believe that in many cases their contribution to their
new country has been enormous.
I
don’t want the UK to lose its personality, pragmatism, sense of
humour, eccentricity, or its fish and chips. There are lots of
things, I’m sure, that other Europeans admire and value about the
British. Nobody should be interested in wiping out the character of a
nation (Scottish and Welsh included) which has produced so many
influential artists, scientists, explorers, writers, and thinkers.
I
believe that if the UK’s citizens vote in favour of leaving the EU,
they will be denying their own history of integrating different races
and cultures, and the values which many generations have held as part
of their Britishness. I
would certainly be very sorry and disappointed.
Alberto
Letona is a Basque journalist living in Bilbao. He is the author
of 'Hijos e Hijas de la Gran Bretaña -Sons and Daughters of Great
Britain' – in which
he delves into the psyche of the British in
an attempt to explain them to his own countrymen.
The foto for FB. A happy-looking trio:-
The foto for FB. A happy-looking trio:-
A few years ago, in Jakarta. Before the younger daughter got married. |
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